A review by kat_c_h
She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman by Ian Kerner

funny hopeful informative reflective medium-paced

5.0

This book will absolutely become a re-read for me. As a queer person re-learning about my own pleasure experience, this book helped me so much to describe my own needs, wants, and feelings. In the bedroom, I often feel/felt embarrassed asking for anything. This book helped me to see what I could possibly want and ask for. Being from a shame based culture related to sex, I was not taught much about my own needs. This book helped me to redefine what sex actually could be like for me. The number of actual techniques in this book truly helped me to unclean so much shame around my own anatomy as well.