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A review by whatsheread
The Daylight Marriage by Heidi Pitlor
The Daylight Marriage is the type of novel that keeps readers guessing. Hannah’s fate remains nebulous until the very end, and the constant predicting and hoping keep a reader emotionally invested in Hannah’s and Lovell’s story. The back and forth between Lovell’s internal reflections of his wife and his marriage versus Hannah’s actions that fateful day remain intriguing. More importantly, the story shows how one small decision can change one’s life forever.
In a situation in which the two partners are at obvious odds with each other, it is easy to side with one person over another. In The Daylight Marriage, however, Ms. Pitlor manages to make both Lovell and Hannah equally guilty and innocent in the downward spiral of their marriage. Both are extremely flawed, and both contribute to their problems. One is no more guilty than the other, and this feels exactly right because as with anything in a relationship, both are at fault for the events leading up to Hannah’s disappearance. To pit one against the other or to lead readers to pick sides would be to change the story and not for the better. Ms. Pitlor balances the line quite nicely and in turn makes the story about something more than someone being innocent or guilty.
While The Daylight Marriage is not about guilt or innocence of any one character, it is about marriage. It sheds light on this institution in which two strangers meet and get to know one another enough to want to share a life with each other. It highlights the fact that one’s spouse will always be somewhat of a stranger because it is impossible to know everything any one person has ever thought, felt, or experienced in the course of one’s life. The Daylight Marriage is not disavowing the idea of marriage or the act itself, but it does highlight how difficult it is for two people to come together and make this long-term situation work. Lovell and Hannah struggle just like every other married couple, but their fights take on more significance in light of Hannah’s sudden disappearance. This is the truly interesting dynamic at play throughout the story.
One last curious element of The Daylight Marriage is that at no point in time is a reader ever in doubt of Lovell’s complete innocence. This is not a story of a husband victimizing his wife or an unreliable narrator telling a highly edited version of a story. Ms. Pitlor establishes this fact early in the novel, and by doing so removes all traces of speculation. In turn, this allows readers to focus on what truly happened and on Lovell’s self-reflection. This also emphasizes the importance of the question of what went wrong that both Lovell and Hannah contemplate.
While there is an ominous tone to The Daylight Marriage, it is a quiet little novel full of deep thoughts and even deeper regrets. It is the culmination of a relationship gone south but one that has not yet reached the point of no recovery. Lovell and Hannah have their problems, but underneath their anger and frustration is that same love they had on their magical honeymoon. That it takes Hannah’s disappearance for both of them to realize this is the true tragedy of the story. Common marital advice includes never going to bed angry with each other and never taking each other for granted. The Daylight Marriage is a great reminder of why that advice is sound.
In a situation in which the two partners are at obvious odds with each other, it is easy to side with one person over another. In The Daylight Marriage, however, Ms. Pitlor manages to make both Lovell and Hannah equally guilty and innocent in the downward spiral of their marriage. Both are extremely flawed, and both contribute to their problems. One is no more guilty than the other, and this feels exactly right because as with anything in a relationship, both are at fault for the events leading up to Hannah’s disappearance. To pit one against the other or to lead readers to pick sides would be to change the story and not for the better. Ms. Pitlor balances the line quite nicely and in turn makes the story about something more than someone being innocent or guilty.
While The Daylight Marriage is not about guilt or innocence of any one character, it is about marriage. It sheds light on this institution in which two strangers meet and get to know one another enough to want to share a life with each other. It highlights the fact that one’s spouse will always be somewhat of a stranger because it is impossible to know everything any one person has ever thought, felt, or experienced in the course of one’s life. The Daylight Marriage is not disavowing the idea of marriage or the act itself, but it does highlight how difficult it is for two people to come together and make this long-term situation work. Lovell and Hannah struggle just like every other married couple, but their fights take on more significance in light of Hannah’s sudden disappearance. This is the truly interesting dynamic at play throughout the story.
One last curious element of The Daylight Marriage is that at no point in time is a reader ever in doubt of Lovell’s complete innocence. This is not a story of a husband victimizing his wife or an unreliable narrator telling a highly edited version of a story. Ms. Pitlor establishes this fact early in the novel, and by doing so removes all traces of speculation. In turn, this allows readers to focus on what truly happened and on Lovell’s self-reflection. This also emphasizes the importance of the question of what went wrong that both Lovell and Hannah contemplate.
While there is an ominous tone to The Daylight Marriage, it is a quiet little novel full of deep thoughts and even deeper regrets. It is the culmination of a relationship gone south but one that has not yet reached the point of no recovery. Lovell and Hannah have their problems, but underneath their anger and frustration is that same love they had on their magical honeymoon. That it takes Hannah’s disappearance for both of them to realize this is the true tragedy of the story. Common marital advice includes never going to bed angry with each other and never taking each other for granted. The Daylight Marriage is a great reminder of why that advice is sound.