A review by hellasmella
What Are You Going Through by Sigrid Nunez

challenging dark emotional funny reflective slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

First of all, this book is genius.  I’ve liked other Nunez work and this really impressed me.

My mom died a long, slow, painful  cancer death when I was 25. I was a new mother and wrapped up in my own issues, so I really wasn’t emotionally or physically present for most of her long decline.    I won’t use the word regret but let’s just say if my mom were sick now and I was so many years older and wise I would do some things differently.   All that to say, this account was an absolute gift to me and let me live out an alternate ending. I’m very grateful.