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A review by heykellyjensen
You All Grow Up and Leave Me: A Memoir of Teenage Obsession by Piper Weiss
An absorbing memoir/true crime read about Piper Weiss's life intersecting with Gary Wilensky. Wilensky earned her trust, as well as her family's, but it was through this grooming behavior that allowed him to then pursue further attempts at relationships with his young clients. His attempts to capture and seduce one of his students went terribly wrong, which led Wilensky to end his life, and Weiss's book is an attempt to not only explore who he was and what drew him to behave this way, but it's also a look at how being a teenage girl is a land mine of men like Wilensky. Weiss is privileged and well-off in Manhattan, with access to so much, yet a man like him was able to gain her trust, her parents trust, and the trust of so many others like her.
This is an exploration of why not her, and yet, why her at the same time. It's a book about the way adults groom and earn the trust of young victims, about the ways that those advances can be brushed aside and ignored.
It's hard to say much more. Weiss is, by all accounts, as average as someone with her status could be, and her experiences with Wilensky are as a victim without being "the" victim. In a lot of ways, this makes her story relatable and something so many women will identify with.
The audiobook for this was great. Brittany Pressley gives a great performance and offers up just enough intonation to give more depth to the book itself -- her voice sounds like a teen girl, on the cusp of adulthood, and here, it works perfectly.
This is an exploration of why not her, and yet, why her at the same time. It's a book about the way adults groom and earn the trust of young victims, about the ways that those advances can be brushed aside and ignored.
It's hard to say much more. Weiss is, by all accounts, as average as someone with her status could be, and her experiences with Wilensky are as a victim without being "the" victim. In a lot of ways, this makes her story relatable and something so many women will identify with.
The audiobook for this was great. Brittany Pressley gives a great performance and offers up just enough intonation to give more depth to the book itself -- her voice sounds like a teen girl, on the cusp of adulthood, and here, it works perfectly.