A review by ellenclibrarian
Crying in H Mart by Michelle Zauner

5.0

This. More than any other book I've ever read. This is what it's like to face life w/o your mother. She gets it so profoundly right, that it is exquisitely painful.

So many quotes to remember from this superb recollection but here is just one example:

"I remember these things clearly because that was how my mother loved you, not through white lies and constant verbal affirmation, but in subtle observations of what brought you joy, pocketed away to make you feel comforted and cared for without even realizing it. She remembered if you liked your stews with extra broth, if you were sensitive to spice, if you hated tomatoes, if you didn't eat seafood, if you had a large appetite. She remembered which banchan side dish you emptied first so the next time you were over it'd be set with a heaping double portion, served alongside the various other preferences that made you, you."