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This was a reread for me. I read it first and listened this time, both were great reading experiences. It was a little over a ten hour audiobook and engaging listen. I struggle with reader voices but I really liked this one! This is a very important read for anyone who considers themselves introverted or has a loved one who does. There can be so much guilt surrounding this personality trait and I am happy to see it broken down a bit. There is nothing wrong with needing/preferring time alone, but it can be hard to feel that way when we are constantly being told our value is equivalent to how many friends we have, how many posts we share, and how many likes we get. I liked how Cain goes into the habit of faking extroversion, and the contrast of lying to yourself vs awareness and consciously acting more extroverted in particular situations. I saw this in myself after reading this book. I go through periods of time being so extroverted and busy then crash and need to recharge for the extent of the interaction. This cycle can happen over years and is exhausting for myself and loved ones. Since reading this book I've been better able to plan and communicate what I need. This books goes over lots more such as highly reactive vs low reactive people, repercussions of our cultural norms, and my favorite- the effect of this culture on our schools. I will say, I think this could be an especially important read for parents. I will probably read it again in a couple years.