A review by sayevet
For Yourself: The Fulfillment of Female Sexuality by Lonnie Barbach

3.0

"Since sex is just a basic form of communication and lack of sexual communication may be indicative of other communication failures in your relationship, it may be best to begin by discussing the problem with your partner, just as soon as you feel ready to, so that your partner understands what's going on and can join you in seeking a solution. But most of all you need to decide to do something about it yourself, beyond complaining and waiting for your partner to take action, or waiting for some miracle to occur."

"Experiment with the yes's and no's and see how you feel after doing them. Remember, you should select things you would not normally refuse or request."