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A review by jrc2011
The Lost Art of Good Conversation: A Mindful Way to Connect with Others and Enrich Everyday Life by Sakyong Mipham
3.0
Overall, I enjoyed this book - it was a quick, light read. I'd classify this primarily as a mindfulness book -- lots of "think before you speak" with the big takeaway being to be compassionate in your responses to others. More of the "yes, and" instead of "no but" -- and don't stir up a debate or an argument that doesn't really matter nor add anything to the world. Use conversation to build connections -- not to build yourself up.
There's also a nice focus on balance and reciprocity: you shouldn't have to pry information out of other people nor should you do all the talking. It's not a practical guide to topics and navigating subjects of conversation -- you'd be better off doing a search for "quality conversation starters." This book is more of a "frame of mind" guide to being thoughtful, considerate and agreeable.
Though it may represent content previously published by the author, it's in a nice format with plenty of bolded sections that provide food for thought. So, instead of browsing Reddit, pick up a book like this to browse for a few minutes instead.
There's also a nice focus on balance and reciprocity: you shouldn't have to pry information out of other people nor should you do all the talking. It's not a practical guide to topics and navigating subjects of conversation -- you'd be better off doing a search for "quality conversation starters." This book is more of a "frame of mind" guide to being thoughtful, considerate and agreeable.
Though it may represent content previously published by the author, it's in a nice format with plenty of bolded sections that provide food for thought. So, instead of browsing Reddit, pick up a book like this to browse for a few minutes instead.