A review by teeclecticreads
Only When It's Us by Chloe Liese

challenging emotional funny reflective sad tense medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

 I’ll start by saying that I think it’s really amazing that Chloe Liese not only listened to what her supporters had to say about the way the deaf rep was handled in the first writing of the book, but was proactive enough to make edits and release a completely new and improved version with changes made to better reflect accuracy with the deaf experience. That alone gets so many points in my book.

I love that deafness isn’t seen as a thing to be pitied or as a burden. Everyone in Ryder’s life was accommodating of his needs, whether by being mindful of speaking clearly where he can see to read their lips, or asking if he preferred to type or text when he began his journey with hearing aids. It may be a small thing to others, but those of us with disabilities know that these are the most meaningful ways that people can show us that they care.

Enemies to lovers is one of my favourite tropes and while I do love the progression they had, there were so many areas of miscommunication that I wasn’t a fan of. From Aiden being dismissive about Ryder’s choices regarding his disability and putting him in an uncomfortable situation unbeknownst to him, to Willa being upset and hypocritical that he didn’t share aspects of his disability with her. Please remember that disabled people do not owe you information about their disability. 

I have to be honest, Willa annoyed me quite a few times while reading this. It’s wild to me that she was hiding so much from Ryder and had the balls to get upset at him for doing the same. Also, Ryder’s friends shaving his beard while he was sleeping felt like a huge violation of person to me. I know if it were me we’d be fighting for suuurreee.

Despite all that, it was still a lovely read. The banter between the two was fun, the Bergmans were a delight to meet and Rooney is one of the best fictional best friends I’ve had the pleasure to read about. She reminds me a little of myself too because I’m very confrontational.

I’m looking forward to reading about Ren and Frankie next ☺️ 
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