4.0

A wonderful, compelling books. Yalom's true stories (properly altered to maintain his clients' anonymity), introduce us to unique people, including Yalom himself, and draw out universal truths about the human condition. Many of the chapters deal with mortality--either the client's approaching death, grieving the death of others, or the common human denial of one's own mortality. They also deal with life--living to the fullest, working through problems that keep one from enjoying life, and focusing on reality rather than one's fantasies or wishful thinking. All this without being hackneyed, unnecessarily harsh, or using pop-psych bromides.

As someone who's been in therapy with many different therapists and styles, I'm impressed with both Yalom's penetrating yet respectful therapy practices and his willingness to see his own professional and personal imperfections--and admit them to clients. I also learned a few things to to reflect on in my own personal growth--and psychological "blind spots"

Highly recommended for just about any adults, and for introspective and mature older teens to try if they're intrigued. A great book-club or share-with-a-friend book for people who trust each other enough to speak honestly about big issues in life. Especially good for anyone willing to or committed to start facing mortality whether it's their own or someone else's.

Note: I read the advance copy of the book, received because of my job (book-selection librarian)