A review by 4lbxrtoii
You've Reached Sam by Dustin Thao

4.0

This book struck a personal chord with me, particularly during a time when I was also grappling with the loss of a loved one. Though I rated it four stars, it left an indelible impression on me as I found myself relating to the flawed main character's journey of self-discovery and redemption.

The protagonist's imperfections and questionable actions may not resonate with everyone, but for me, they mirrored the intricate nature of grief. The aftermath of losing someone dear can lead us to make choices that, in the moment, seem justified as a means to move forward. The main character's decision to dispose of Sam's belongings and her reluctance to attend a film festival screening party may be seen as misguided by some, but they reflect the unpredictable and often irrational nature of grief. It is a testament to the author's skill that these flawed choices fostered empathy and understanding in me as a reader.

As the story unfolds, we witness the consequences of the main character's actions not only on herself but also on those who were close to Sam, including his best friend and cousin. Thao adeptly explores the ripple effect of grief, reminding us that our choices can profoundly impact others who are also navigating their own grief journey. The raw emotions and deep connections portrayed in these relationships beautifully illustrate the interconnectedness of human experiences in the face of loss.

One of the standout scenes in the book is the lantern scene, reminiscent of the lantern release in the movie "Tangled." This poignant moment serves as a symbol of letting go and guiding Sam's soul to where it needs to be. It showcases the power of shared rituals and the beauty of finding solace and hope in collective remembrance. Thao's vivid descriptions evoke a sense of both melancholy and comfort, capturing the essence of grief and the possibility of healing.