A review by tay_af
Conversations with Friends by Sally Rooney

emotional reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5

Update 2021: I was pleasantly surprised by how much more I liked the book overall the second time I read it. I think the dynamics are a lot more intricate than I really gave Rooney credit for, and I found myself really liking the characters’ decisions to be honest with each other (when they were). The non-normative relationship dynamics are quite well done in the end, too. 

2019: I’m incredibly torn about how I feel about this book. As a rule, I find adultery plots boring and this was mostly no exception, although the dynamics later changed in such a way that I found it much more interesting. I think the dominant romantic relationship of the text was much less interesting then the other combo romantic platonic relationship, which also improved in focus near the end, but I wish it had ended more on that than on anything else. Phenomenal writing style, which makes it so I can’t go below 4 stars, and I think I would feel differently if I liked the characters more as well.