A review by lennorb
Find Me by André Aciman

challenging emotional hopeful mysterious reflective sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

3.0

There is a lot going on with this book and I was swinging between a 2 and 3.5 while reading.

The writing style is distinctively Aciman and it’s an easy holiday read for the most part which I enjoyed. 

However, there were a lot of things that I didn’t like. Aciman seems to be suggesting that the only way love can exist is obsessively, instantly and with massive power (and age) imbalances. This makes sense in the original due to Elio’s age but here it was just bizarre. The sex scenes made me feel yuck due to the above and the constant incest innuendo (????). The characters were often melodramatic and sleazy and the few female characters were just objectified with little substance. 

It retains the essence of Call Me By Your Name but didn’t succeed in the way the original did

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