luckthelady 's review for:

The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities by Dossie Easton

5.0

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This is a solid volume about ethical non-monogamy but also, fundamentally, boundaries—how you negotiate feeling safe, what makes you feel desired and desirous, first with yourself and then with any future partner, however many there are. There is also a lot of compassion and care taken to address the kinds of negative feelings or pushback that could arise with learning your biases, facing the things you fear, and anticipating jealousy.

Also: fun with orgies! Hahaha.