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Orenstein interviewed high schoolers and college men to get an idea of what modern young men are facing in the way of dating culture. In talking to them, she found that while things have advanced for young women in the last few decades, that that is not the case for young men. There is still a pervasive idea of “boys club,” that is reinforced through peer pressure and media influences. There is still the view of sex as conquests for boys, and that they must “hit that” in order to prove themselves. Modern boys are also subjected to much more porn than previous generations, and that is having an affect on them as well. But young men still want to have meaningful relationships (sexual or otherwise), but they don’t know how to communicate this with others. Orenstein recommends that the best thing parents can do for their sons is have open dialogs with them about friendships and relationships in order to help them understand what healthy relationships look like, as well as ideas of consent and communication.
An excellent and interesting look at modern young men’s views on sex and dating. Gave me lots to think about.
An excellent and interesting look at modern young men’s views on sex and dating. Gave me lots to think about.