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A review by calebmatthews
Mating in Captivity: Reconciling the Erotic and the Domestic by Esther Perel
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Mating in Captivity
Eroticism requires separateness
Romantics and realists
Stability and passion
Passion in a relationship is commiserate with how much uncertainty a person can take
Recovering curiosity
QUESTIONS FOR THERAPY: how did you meet? What attracted you to one another?
Separateness is a precondition for connection
Love is about having, desire is about wanting.
It takes two people to create a pattern, but only one to change it.
Eroticism requires separateness
Romantics and realists
Stability and passion
Passion in a relationship is commiserate with how much uncertainty a person can take
Recovering curiosity
QUESTIONS FOR THERAPY: how did you meet? What attracted you to one another?
Separateness is a precondition for connection
Love is about having, desire is about wanting.
It takes two people to create a pattern, but only one to change it.