A review by philatcs
Poems That Make Grown Women Cry by Anthony Holden, Ben Holden

4.0

"you can't make homes of human beings
someone should have already told you that"

"you are terrifying
strange and beautiful
something not everyone knows how to love"

- warsan shire, 'for women who are difficult to love' (2009)

this anthology was brilliant. i binge read it maybe too quickly to breathe it all in, but there's plenty of opportunity to read through it again.

i read this to have an insight into feminist poetry for my dissertation, and i think this was the perfect read not only for that, but also just to decide what sort of poetry directly resonates with you.
i'd never heard of warsan shire or her poetry, but taiye selasi's entry was the one which resonated with me most. she writes "i wept for my strangeness. i wept for my beauty. i wept for the beauty of truth plainly told. poetry alone can do this: touch, with the fewest of phrases, our raw beating hearts".

i think that's so fucking beautiful and real. there were so many other entries in the book that were beautifully written, and then the poems that directly effected them. i think that's why in the last few years i've become so deeply connected to poetry. it feels a lot more emotional and personal than prose. i need to get into reading more poetry anthologies

these poems didn't make me cry, but they made my chest ache.