A review by kimlynne
She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman by Ian Kerner

3.0

What I have never understood is why so few people make an effort to learn how to be good at sex. Like actually making an effort to read or learn the science and techniques of sex and of how the bodies of the opposite sex work somehow is a waste of time. This would be a decent book for any guy who is at that stage of his life where he is working to get laid for the first time and actually wants to not embarrass himself (of course, he should read about ten other books with different perspectives too). And it is a decent supplemental book for young woman who should be making an effort to understand their own bodies and how things work...and maybe how to give constructive tips to their partner.

It is also a great book for guys of any age with some experience under their belt but suspect they maybe they could use some tips but whose ego won't let them just ask their partner or follow their partners instructions. (Note...this would be a LOT of guys, and yes, probably includes you).

And for anybody having a conniption right now about "pre-marital sex" or whatever, that is your hang-up not mine...so, if I don't want to get married till I'm much older or maybe never, I should never have sex?

So, having said that, the entire first few chapters were ridiculous...the author goes on and on and on and on about how important it is to consider the woman and that it isn't all about the man...yes...important...but say it once and move on. He did a good job about explaining anatomy...and even if his "methods" don't work for you, he gives a great place to start and things to try. So the writing was mediocre, some of the content was lame, but there was some worthwhile stuff here.