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The Lost Daughter by Elena Ferrante
3.75
dark emotional reflective tense slow-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: No
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

I think they got to me 
This book made me realise how deeply ingrained the idea of the role of a woman as a mother is in my head. This woman is a mother, yet she isn’t inherently nurturing and it kind of made me hate her. I couldn’t really understand her decisions, probably because I’ve spent my entire life taking it as a given that I want to be a mum one day and I guess I just couldn’t fathom how chasing a small thrill could override a maternal instinct. I think it was a really good exploration of what it means to be a woman and whether we automatically fit into this role of mother or are just told that we should.