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leahchole 's review for:
The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts
by Gary Chapman
While the writing itself is quipped and very formulaic, I did find a lot of clarity in how to be a better partner and friend. There was also a lot of self-exploration and soul searching done on my behalf as I read and I came to realize why so many of my prior relationships failed.
Quality Time and Words of Affirmation are what I consistently need from a partner, but I lacked the ability to define or express that need. I feel a sense of clarity to know the needs of myself and the needs of my partner.
However, I didn't care for the frequent references to Christianity, as this would likely open itself to dismissal by anyone who does not follow a Christian Doctrine. Additionally, the analysis was incredibly heteronormative and would likely alienate any reader of the LGBTQ community, though the concepts could easily apply to non-heterosexual couples.
Overall the book was a very easy read and would benefit anyone who feels as though they frequently miss out on expressing love or do not feel love from their partner. I now find myself pointing out the love languages expressed in songs and movies as well as the people I meet.
Quality Time and Words of Affirmation are what I consistently need from a partner, but I lacked the ability to define or express that need. I feel a sense of clarity to know the needs of myself and the needs of my partner.
However, I didn't care for the frequent references to Christianity, as this would likely open itself to dismissal by anyone who does not follow a Christian Doctrine. Additionally, the analysis was incredibly heteronormative and would likely alienate any reader of the LGBTQ community, though the concepts could easily apply to non-heterosexual couples.
Overall the book was a very easy read and would benefit anyone who feels as though they frequently miss out on expressing love or do not feel love from their partner. I now find myself pointing out the love languages expressed in songs and movies as well as the people I meet.