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Becoming Shameless by Eden Simchah
challenging
emotional
hopeful
reflective
fast-paced
4.5
Thank you to the author for the ARC in exchange for an honest review.
Eden takes the reader through her life in a memoir that unfurls the emotional, verbal, and physical abuse she suffered at the hands of her mother. The consequences of this abuse permeate her life, and greatly affect her sense of self-worth.
The first chapters read like you're right there with her and in the mindset she had at the time. There were many moments where I was willing her to realize the abuse for what it was. It isn't until the later chapters where there is realization and a journey towards healing. In that journey, there is hope. The book also has some very powerful statements about not having to forgive your abusers.
For such a short memoir, it is a rollercoaster of emotions. It is honest and unflinching. It is pretty to-the-point, which made it a quick but compelling read. Please be aware of triggers going into this including sexual assault, eating disorders, and homophobia (external and internal).
I've also never wanted to rip apart the Enneagram more in my life.
I'm grateful I was given the opportunity to read a self-published work especially one where the author bares her soul. If you can handle the subject matter, it is a read I recommend!
Eden takes the reader through her life in a memoir that unfurls the emotional, verbal, and physical abuse she suffered at the hands of her mother. The consequences of this abuse permeate her life, and greatly affect her sense of self-worth.
The first chapters read like you're right there with her and in the mindset she had at the time. There were many moments where I was willing her to realize the abuse for what it was. It isn't until the later chapters where there is realization and a journey towards healing. In that journey, there is hope. The book also has some very powerful statements about not having to forgive your abusers.
For such a short memoir, it is a rollercoaster of emotions. It is honest and unflinching. It is pretty to-the-point, which made it a quick but compelling read. Please be aware of triggers going into this including sexual assault, eating disorders, and homophobia (external and internal).
I've also never wanted to rip apart the Enneagram more in my life.
I'm grateful I was given the opportunity to read a self-published work especially one where the author bares her soul. If you can handle the subject matter, it is a read I recommend!
Content Warnings
Graphic: Homophobia, Emotional abuse, and Eating disorder
Moderate: Sexual assault and Physical abuse