A review by lory_enterenchanted
Running on Empty: Overcome Your Childhood Emotional Neglect by Jonice Webb

Did not finish book.
I skim read this for the most useful and relevant information. I do believe emotional neglect is real and formative but needs more study. Some of what wenn describes here is emotional abuse. Most interesting to me is the category of well meaning but neglected themselves parents but that is given the least detailed attention. 

The joggest aha was about my lack of self discipline and the hope that o can solve that not by self criticism but by better self care.