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Not Here to Be Liked by Michelle Quach
lighthearted
relaxing
fast-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
2.25
i was promised a good book with rivals to lovers and good representation of feminism, but i did not receive any of that. in fact, i am incredibly disappointed with this book not just with the hype it got on booktok but with all the 4-star reviews it got. here's why:
1. wrong portrayal of feminism
a lot of the actions caused by eliza in the name of "feminism" were definitely questionable. in fact, a lot of the acts caused by characters were questionable because they had questionable intentions in the first place. while i do understand where eliza comes from with feeling as if her losing was due to the misogyny present, you can definitely argue that eliza lost because she isn't a fitting leader. why? because she is managing editor (?) of the bugle already. people already have a taste of how it would be to be under eliza's supervision in a more authoritative position.
sure, you can also argue that it is misogynistic because they chose to favor "possibility" by voting len who has less credentials and less experience instead of "credibility" which eliza clearly had. however, being credible in that specific school setting does not cover if you are a good leader. if the people in the bugle did not like how they were being treated and felt that len could provide better comments that would not only aid them but uplift them, then it makes perfect sense why eliza did not win.
obviously credibility is everything especially in the socio-political context. i mean, its so important to choose people who have more experience when it comes to more nationwide or even schoolwide positions. but i do believe there is nothing wrong with len winning because giving someone the chance to lead despite little experience but with the passion to do so is still as valuable. which is why if the situation were different, i would be able to empathise with eliza better. if it were for the student council position or if len turned out to actually have a bad record from the start, then i would have fully agreed with her. but we cannot deny that her choosing to blame it on misogyny was petty in the sense that it was just actual anger towards len being the editor-in-chief.
this was heavily seen when eliza had mentioned the walkout. the purpose of the walkout was to make sure len would resign from being editor-in-chief, and i felt as if that was performative in itself. there are better ways to tackle misogyny, and i do believe walkouts do have ways to do it. but it is the intention that made the whole reading so upsetting.
obviously, there were still really good points. feminism in the point of view of bipoc people especially those in different generations was a good way to tackle the idea of it. not only that, i can definitely see where misogyny was actually present (such as the school's principal arguing that tampons is an inappopriate topic to discuss in school or when the school found out that eliza and len hooked up, eliza suffered the most). however, i still think the book can send out the wrong message especially with how it was ordered, the intentions, etc.
2. the characters were just overall annoying
i don't know if the intention was to make characters walking cliches or just soooooo annoying but they had no personality. i felt like the only character i really liked was winona. eliza was just so unlikable and len was so. i cant even begin to describe him. his personality trait was just being a washedup athlete LOL! eliza was just so misguided but she did have her sort of redemption arc in some cases. i don't know but its so hard to enjoy this book if everyone was just ANNOYING.
overall, this book could have been better. i'm not even kidding. maybe if the context was changed or the intention or whatever were different, maybe i would've liked this book. people can disagree with me because i will acknowledge that this book still had good points. however, i will still stick by the fact that it could send out the wrong message. as this is a YA book, i hope people who have read this understand that this isn't what feminism or misogyny is all about. please make sure to do your research on what the two are. hopefully this book only helps you in wanting to do proper research on these concepts especially in the views of bipoc people.
1. wrong portrayal of feminism
a lot of the actions caused by eliza in the name of "feminism" were definitely questionable. in fact, a lot of the acts caused by characters were questionable because they had questionable intentions in the first place. while i do understand where eliza comes from with feeling as if her losing was due to the misogyny present, you can definitely argue that eliza lost because she isn't a fitting leader. why? because she is managing editor (?) of the bugle already. people already have a taste of how it would be to be under eliza's supervision in a more authoritative position.
sure, you can also argue that it is misogynistic because they chose to favor "possibility" by voting len who has less credentials and less experience instead of "credibility" which eliza clearly had. however, being credible in that specific school setting does not cover if you are a good leader. if the people in the bugle did not like how they were being treated and felt that len could provide better comments that would not only aid them but uplift them, then it makes perfect sense why eliza did not win.
obviously credibility is everything especially in the socio-political context. i mean, its so important to choose people who have more experience when it comes to more nationwide or even schoolwide positions. but i do believe there is nothing wrong with len winning because giving someone the chance to lead despite little experience but with the passion to do so is still as valuable. which is why if the situation were different, i would be able to empathise with eliza better. if it were for the student council position or if len turned out to actually have a bad record from the start, then i would have fully agreed with her. but we cannot deny that her choosing to blame it on misogyny was petty in the sense that it was just actual anger towards len being the editor-in-chief.
this was heavily seen when eliza had mentioned the walkout. the purpose of the walkout was to make sure len would resign from being editor-in-chief, and i felt as if that was performative in itself. there are better ways to tackle misogyny, and i do believe walkouts do have ways to do it. but it is the intention that made the whole reading so upsetting.
obviously, there were still really good points. feminism in the point of view of bipoc people especially those in different generations was a good way to tackle the idea of it. not only that, i can definitely see where misogyny was actually present (such as the school's principal arguing that tampons is an inappopriate topic to discuss in school or when the school found out that eliza and len hooked up, eliza suffered the most). however, i still think the book can send out the wrong message especially with how it was ordered, the intentions, etc.
2. the characters were just overall annoying
i don't know if the intention was to make characters walking cliches or just soooooo annoying but they had no personality. i felt like the only character i really liked was winona. eliza was just so unlikable and len was so. i cant even begin to describe him. his personality trait was just being a washedup athlete LOL! eliza was just so misguided but she did have her sort of redemption arc in some cases. i don't know but its so hard to enjoy this book if everyone was just ANNOYING.
overall, this book could have been better. i'm not even kidding. maybe if the context was changed or the intention or whatever were different, maybe i would've liked this book. people can disagree with me because i will acknowledge that this book still had good points. however, i will still stick by the fact that it could send out the wrong message. as this is a YA book, i hope people who have read this understand that this isn't what feminism or misogyny is all about. please make sure to do your research on what the two are. hopefully this book only helps you in wanting to do proper research on these concepts especially in the views of bipoc people.
Content Warnings
Moderate: Alcoholism, Misogyny, and Sexism