3.0

Agree with the review that this book is too long, and also I think I would absolutely hate this if I read it as a single 40 year old.

As a 28yo in a committed relationship I thought this was a great overview of what types of things are important or not in a relationship and also great inspiration to not let silly things derail tbe relationship.

Nothing makes you want to make it work like the spectre of being 40 and having to convince yourself that its actually fine and good to have to date somebody you're not attracted to or interested in at all because there are literally no other options. I'll keep my partner who I am attracted to and love, even if he always leaves literally everg cupboard door open when he's done cooking!

If you're a relatively normal person you probably won't have the issues the author has. She had several examples of breaking up with somebody over a very small and insignificant thing, which I think most people don't do. I didn't relate to her very much. I did enjoy the book though.