A review by earthseeddetroit
Didn't We Almost Have It All: The Genius, Shame, and Audacity of Whitney Houston by Gerrick Kennedy

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Didn't We Almost Have It All: In Defense of Whitney Houston

By Gerrick Kennedy

“A candid exploration of the genius, shame, and celebrity of Whitney Houston a decade after her passing.”

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I just finished reading this book and I am giving it four stars. I think that the author did a really good job of pointing out clearly the toll that the American public takes on celebrities. The liberties that we take with their lives, their business, their weaknesses and vulnerabilities… how its “never enough” for the public.

Whitney Houston was criticized relentlessly for not being Black enough in her representation during her music, not being straight enough when questions arose regarding her sexuality, not being sexy enough, a d then not being diva enough or wholesome when the masks slipped. Her family did a number on her by criticizing her as well and unfortunately was the source of some of the abuses that lead to her tragic demise.

In a lot of these celebrity memoirs, apparent is how much we love a good train wreck. Like the scent of blood after an injury in a shark infested pool, here comes the feeding frenzy. Making her the butt of jokes, putting her life on display, Taking advantage of her addictions for public entertainment and public consumption, a habit which is just as much our addiction as hers was to crack cocaine.

I feel like the author handled her very sensitively in this book but also gave all of the nitty-gritty.

I do not want to go see the interviews, or the performances or the photographs that are referenced. I knew some of this about her past but a lot of this I did not know the details of and I did not realize she actually entered the game with a demon on her back.

This book does make me want to listen to her music more and celebrate the glorious talent that she had. The voice that we wrung out of her until she was a dry whisper.

This book did get a little repetitive sometimes. The author’s choice of words, phrases, and references to certain points in her history reoccurred frequently. I don’t know if that’s because each chapter was meant to be like an essay unto itself or if that’s just the style of his writing, he does have a journalism background so I’m not sure.

But again, I appreciate this look into her life even though it was at times hard to watch. Whitney Houston influenced so many younger women singers of that day and continues to inspire. Everyone wants to sound like Whitney! Everyone wants “The Voice.”

It’s crazy how at the same time we said it wasn’t enough.

My heart breaks for the way life happened to her and her progeny. And again it gives me so much disappointing insight to us as a whole and the twisted arena of fame. Although we do love a good comeback story. We also really like to watch car crashes and train wrecks so much that we egg it on and encourage the destruction.