A review by lakheni
The Joys of Motherhood by Buchi Emecheta

challenging emotional informative medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Plot

5.0

I read this book in high school and it was life changing. The detailing of women’s struggles as both wives and mothers in a patriarchal society was honest and necessary, especially in the African context. The joys of motherhood describes the burdens of motherhood that are often seen as a cross women should bare instead of a terrible consequence of the society they are borne into and a “rite of passage” that women can revolt against, if it’s burdens outweigh the benefit to them. The joys of motherhood is one of my favourite reads. This book affirmed my decision at a young age to be child free when everyone thought my stance was absurd. For that, I am truly grateful for Buchi's work.  I love her work.