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it has taken me a lot of attachment reading to start to understand attachment and how it can be more than an assessment of parenting or an explaination for unhelpful behaviours.
I did like the renaming of the styles to anchor, island and wave and the focus on brain function and recognizing it rather than changing or feeling guilty for our style. I did feel that like many attachment theories even in parenting it has a very one-on-one, two person relationship style that I feel excludes many other ways of being. I do like idea of a relationship bubble - but can we create this place of safety and commitment without making the relationship the only place for security and it being an us against the world mentality. I find many attachment theories are missing the idea of the village - both in parenting and relationships - it is the idea of the one place of safety and security - what if there is more than one that does not compete or negate the other.
I did like the renaming of the styles to anchor, island and wave and the focus on brain function and recognizing it rather than changing or feeling guilty for our style. I did feel that like many attachment theories even in parenting it has a very one-on-one, two person relationship style that I feel excludes many other ways of being. I do like idea of a relationship bubble - but can we create this place of safety and commitment without making the relationship the only place for security and it being an us against the world mentality. I find many attachment theories are missing the idea of the village - both in parenting and relationships - it is the idea of the one place of safety and security - what if there is more than one that does not compete or negate the other.