A review by tien
Mum & Dad by Joanna Trollope

3.0

"So despite the fact that I know you think I'm wet and useless and defeatist, I'm actually just trying to elude being stamped on by everyone else, flattened, obliterated. It may sound pathetic to you, but I just want people to be kind. Kind to me, and to each other. That's all."

Monica and Gus chose to live in Spain; away from their children who live in England. Or rather, Monica followed Gus in realising his dreams of a vineyard. As a family, they are rather more estranged than familiar with huge big gaps between each member. When Gus suffered a stroke, however, things began to boil over until one and then two and then the rest begins to open up and one talks to the other.

This isn't a book that I'd pick up on my own; not by its description anyway. I'm too wary of family stories as I've had enough of mine own. However, I kind of liked the cover so thought I'd give it a go. It was a matter of discipline of reading 2 chapters per day. That made it sound rather terrible, isn't it? But, it was a pretty sad & heartbreaking story. At least, to begin with, it was, but thankfully the ending wasn't too bad. Although, I did wonder how realistic it was... Probably only a small percentage of family will survive for the better or am I being a cynic?

Overall, Mum & Dad is a wonderful book in showing just how gaps and misunderstandings can be bridged by being open, talking honestly and willingness to forgive. I enjoyed Trollope's prose and her descriptions of Spain had me enthralled to the end.

Thanks to Pan MacMillan Australia for copy of book in exchange of honest review