A review by melissagopp
The Loneliness Files by Athena Dixon

challenging hopeful reflective medium-paced

4.5

I stumbled onto this author via social media and have been following her work for a few years. This latest book attracted me because of its focus on the digital world and how it impacts our sense of connection to each other (or lack thereof). The book opens with the author looking at other women’s stories of loneliness that have appeared in the news. She looks as if into a mirror, trying to assess whether or not she sees herself in these women. From there, the author moves on to giving us a peek at her dating and professional life under the influence of social media, online dating, and the forced isolation brought on by the COVID-19 pandemic. I especially love her reflections on social media—its known downsides and her sometimes hesitant, other times enthusiastic participation. Her analysis of The Truman Show and the insights it offers into the way marketing works in today’s world made me want to watch the movie again. I also admire how she anchors herself and her narrative in her real-life community of family, which she remains connected to in spite of the distance and relentless passing of time. Thank you to NetGalley and Tin House for the opportunity to read in exchange for an honest review.