A review by peedsreads
How to Get a Life in Ten Dates by Jenny L. Howe

funny hopeful lighthearted reflective fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

I'm amazed how much I loved this book! I'm really excited to see what else Jenny L Howe puts out because the improvement from her debut, The Make Up Test to this.... INCREDIBLE!

It was sweet and funny with the perfect level of cheese. I think she did such a great job capturing both the experiences of adult dating in the 21st century as well as the experience of dating in a fat body. I laughed I felt emotional, and swooned at the tender parts.

This is how you do a love triangle!

There are only a few frustrations for me keeping it out of the five star favorite class.  The first one is the exaggerated pressure the main character's family puts on her to date and be partnered. It reads unrealistic and annoying. For adults to think a 25 year old, perpetually single woman wanting to take a 6 month hiatus from the dating apps is the fast track to old maid... get a grip.  Also who cares if you have a plus one to your sister's engagement party.... The other complaint I had was related to the primary characters' general anxiety representation.  I think she did an excellent job capturing the headspace these characters could be in and illustrating how it impacts relationships. (She also presents different preferences for treating anxiety which is wonderful. but also bro... take the pills.) However as someone with anxiety... I think she did too well. It hit very close to home and I was getting anxious about their unhealthy communication that simultaneously fed into their specific neurosis.  So like good job, but also what gives you the right?