4.75
informative reflective fast-paced

This is great. Not groundbreaking and v academized but puts words to many things we only know as vague ideas/feelings/themes from the experience of just being a woman who exists and has sex. Having  just  read Care Work, I feel like this analysis and our general understanding of sex could learn a lot from the disability community and the ways disabled folks treat sex esp with other disabled people... but idk. For what it is, this book is great.