A review by jjp723
The End of Your Life Book Club by Will Schwalbe

4.0

Touching and thought-provoking, and a reminder of the importance of books and reading and kindness and love. Recommended.

*He was the smartest and best-read person any of us had ever know, but he wore his learning so lightly and had such curiosity about other people that he had the ability to make everyone around him feel smart and well-read.*

*She was, she said. Very sad. But she was also looking forward to being back in New York. "The world is complicated," she added. "You don't have to have one emotion at a time."

*"Everyone doesn't have to do everything," she told me. "People forget you can also express yourself by what you choose to admire and support. I've had so much pleasure from beautiful and challenging things created by other people, things I could never make or do. I wouldn't trade that for anything."

*This, I finally realized, was how Mom was able to focus when I was not. It was how she was able to be present with me, present with the people at a benefit or the hospital. She felt whatever emotions she felt, but feeling was never a useful substitute for doing, and she never let the former get in the way of the latter. If anything, she used her emotions to motivate her and help her concentrate. The emphasis for her was always on doing what needed to be done. I had to learn this lesson while she was still there to teach me.*