3.5
challenging informative reflective

Great read if you’re married/ thinking of marriage/ divorced and are able to create space for reflection and accountability.  The author uses his own divorce as a catalyst for illustrating how a marriage can end and what the readers should be aware of and consider in order to avoid patterns that often lead to a relationships demise. 

This book helped me recognize patterns my ex as well as myself were conforming to that led to the inevitable destruction of our relationship. Excellent advice for future relationships as well, even if you aren’t perusing a marriage.