A review by rhaines46
Transformative Experience by L. A. Paul

it got kinda repetitive and parts seemed dubious but also there were some interesting bits including the introduction of the term superbaby

"And claims like 'I can't imagine life without my child' are not evidence that having a child has high subjective value; they are merely evidence that having a child impairs a parent's psychological ability to envision certain counterfactual scenarios"