himpersonal 's review for:

3.0
emotional mysterious sad medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: No
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

I can understand why this book is currently being talked about by Japanese feminists. A lot of important things are discussed. I enjoyed the question of whether menโ€™s domestic dependency on women could drive them to death. However, given the bookโ€™s greatest achievement for me was making my mouth water for buttery foods, I cannot give this more than three stars.

Actually, it did also surprise me in one way. When I was a child and my family was poor, my dad also used to mix rice with soy sauce and butter (well, it was some butter-like spread - probably margarine, which would appall Kaji ๐Ÿ˜ซ). I always thought it was something we did just because we were so poor. Now I wonder if my dad was more gourmet than any of us realized ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

Update a couple months later: Missing my dad a lot this week. This week is the anniversary week that he died/was killed. So I'm eating rice with butter and chopped chili and Maggi seasoning to remember him. We'd be laughing together about what a silly snack this is, and we'd love every bite together. Not exactly a Michelin star meal, but sure is good for my soul. My dad was a man of many contradictions, and food was a big part of that.

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