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Calypso by David Sedaris
4.0

If you haven't read David Sedaris, you need to know one thing before you do; he's not your average human being. Things like naming his beach house in North Carolina "Sea Section," or managing 25 miles in a day on his Fitbit are what really call to him. In his collections of essays, you don't get your drab stories about a man living his life. You get stories written from the small details that life hands you but sometimes you forget.

Reading David Sedaris reminds me of watching episodes of Roseanne. What looks to be your typical American family turns out to be much more than that. There's a deeper truth behind the stories and sometimes the stories are just stories. There's controversy, but you realize why the events taking place are so controversial.

In Calypso, you can sense a theme spanning across Sedaris's stories. The main theme was definitely middle age. There isn't much about his twenties or the life he lived before he met Hugh. There isn't much about his childhood and growing up with three sisters. However, there's a lot on colonoscopies, staying fit while getting older, and the continued battle of who's political party is the better one.

Many of his stories take place on his beach property in North Carolina. Many of them are written about his sister's suicide and his father's old age. Some of the stories are light-hearted and remind you that life is a little bit weird and you can make it weirder on your own like buying culottes in Japan or feeding a snapping turtle part of a lump they took out of your body. Other stories are much more serious.

I've read stories about his sister, Tiffany, before. This isn't the first time David Sedaris incorporated her experiences into his work. However, this feels like the first time he dives deeper into her personality and the impact her death made on his family. It's kind of funny that David Sedaris is able to laugh about getting married to his long-time partner, Hugh, but then it goes real dark with stories about how old his father is getting.

But I guess that's kind of what life is like and that's what I love about David Sedaris's work. You laugh a little and you cry a little. Each moment is just another stamp in the passport of life. Of course there's also stories about the current political state America is in despite the fact that he's lived in England for decades. It just goes to show that the moments we live through make up the later years of our lives. We spend time reminiscing on the past and avoiding the shock of knowing you're suddenly in your 50s.

If anything, this book made me feel at ease. Middle age is a ways away for me, but I always imagine what it's like to be my parents' age. I know it's inevitable that I'll get there, but it's always nice to know what I'm about to get into.