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elfzi 's review for:
The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts
by Gary Chapman
You don’t need to read this book. It holds one basic premise which could be explained in a single page. Read the page online and save yourself the money. Also I felt very uncomfortable about the anecdote at the end where the woman says she’s is being treated badly by her husband and the advice the author gives her is to have sex with him twice a week to show him love. The woman says she feels uncomfortable doing so, and Chapman says she’s going to need a lot of faith in God to do it! Then after a month of her spreading her legs she gets to ask some things of her husband, and he responds well, so apparently this is a miracle as the marriage is saved. It made me feel sick. This is NOT healthy love. The basic principle of love languages is fairly sound, but as I say that can be explained in just a few words. The anecdotes of how Chapman using them to counsel people, is somewhat worrying to me. Read the website instead of giving this man any money!! And don’t stay in an abusive relationship, no matter what. That has nothing at all to do with love.