A review by savaging
Those Who Leave and Those Who Stay by Elena Ferrante

5.0

I'm sitting here with this screen open because I don't know how to write my love for this book.

Is it that a book about a wife and mother in 1970s Italy feels so personally relevant? And I look at the chick-lit cover, personally chosen by this brilliant pseudonymous-anonymous author who refuses to promote her books in any way, and I know we're all feeling this. The absurd cliche: This is what it's like to be a woman. What a stupid idea, that there can be some connecting thread between all of us -- who is 'us' anyway? But when you start out from that stupidity (stupid photos of the sundress-clad, the ones staring out at the ocean, never facing a camera), look what can come from it.

Is it because the writing doesn't have any seams? I didn't realize it until I read Ferrante, but with other books I'm inadvertently making a mental checklist: here's a literary device; here's an awkwardly-worded passage; here's where the character has to be stretched for the sake of the plot... Ferrante's syntax and plotlines are both so much more natural, more inevitable than other books.