A review by evergrn
Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking by Susan Cain

informative inspiring reflective medium-paced

5.0

“Spend your free time the way you like, not the way you think you're supposed to.” 

As an introvert, this book was such a validating read for me. I’ve always known that I’m capable of more than what people expect from me because of my quiet nature, and I’ve built a lot of confidence in that, but I still decided to give this book a read because, honestly, I need a little reminder sometimes. There are moments when I feel that pressure to conform to what the world expects from someone to be considered successful—especially in a society that often prizes extroversion. This book helped me reconnect with the things I already knew deep down but sometimes forget in my attempt to fit into the standards.

I think a lot of introverts can relate to this struggle. We know we’re capable, but there’s always that nagging feeling that we have to be louder or more social to be recognized for what we bring to the table. And that's where this book really hits home. The author does an amazing job of dismantling the myth that introverts are somehow less effective or less important than their extroverted counterparts. She shows that being quiet doesn’t mean being weak, and in fact, it can be a powerful way to engage with the world. Strength doesn’t have to be loud, it can be thoughtful, deliberate, and just as impactful. 

“The secret to life is to put yourself in the right lighting. For some, it's a Broadway spotlight; for others, a lamplit desk. Use your natural powers—of persistence, concentration, and insight—to do work you love and work that matters. Solve problems, make art, think deeply.” 

This book also dives into the societal bias toward extroverts, especially in places like schools and workplaces, where there’s this unspoken expectation that everyone should be more outgoing, more social, and just generally more “extroverted.” It’s like you’re expected to fit in with this fast-paced, talkative, always-busy crowd. This pressure to fit a mold that doesn’t naturally align with my personality has always been there, and I know a lot of introverts feel the same. 

Reading this book has been such a comforting reminder that it’s okay to take a step back and breathe. I don’t have to force myself to be someone I’m not just to keep up.  Sometimes, the best thing I can do is give myself permission to step back, recharge, and focus on what truly matters to me. 

Overall, this book is such a comforting read.   ∞/5.