A review by danielbernier
The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity by Esther Perel

5.0

"An affair is revealed in a relationship, and an affair reveals a lot about a relationship. It sheds a stark light on its constructs..."

"What are the lessons of infidelity, for all of us who love?"

"What [can we] learn from affairs without necessarily having to go through one?"

Don't wait until you experience an affair to read this book. Perel approaches her clients with compassion, genuine curiosity, pragmatism, and an appreciation for what makes us human, and she's learned invaluable things about marriage and love.