A review by kati_craig
Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life by Emily Nagoski

4.0

4.5 stars. This book actually took me two years to complete- which has much less to do with the quality or content of the book than the fact that even if I’m engaged, I almost never pick up non-fiction to read. But every time I sat down to read, I found passages worth highlighting. Determined to make headway, I picked up from page 109 yesterday and completed it (p 324) tonight. I thoroughly enjoyed and learned from this book and only wish I would have had it 20 years ago. Dr. Nagoski weaves science references with her own case studies and useful metaphors in a familiar, conversational manner. There were a couple of chapters that dragged a bit, though I acknowledge it may just be because those weren’t as relevant to me. I found the book very approachable and revelatory - and yet my biggest takeaway seems so obvious - that your sexuality is your own and prioritizing your experiences over your expectations will help you have a confident and joyful sex life.