A review by samusc
Hijab Butch Blues by Lamya H

challenging emotional funny hopeful reflective medium-paced

5.0

I read this book in preparation of the Butches and Roses virtual author event tomorrow through Bluestockings.

In this phenomenal memoir, Lamya shares with a reader key moments throughout their life from ages 4 through her early 30's. Common themes addressed include personal interpretations of faith, homecoming, finding community, and recognizing one's own identity. 
Upon coming out to some folks in her 20's, she searches for community, and finds that white LGBTQ+ spaces are not inclusive, especially when she's the only Hijabi in the room. Recounting of bad dates reminded me of my own disaster dates and provided some humorous moments. Over time, her inquisitive disposition has led her to meaningful friendships with other Queer Muslim women, where they discuss and analyze verses of the Quran as they apply to their lives.
I love how connected she is with her faith and the concluding conversation on choosing battles is ringing particularly strongly.