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What It Means To Be Found by Andrea Andersen
emotional
funny
hopeful
informative
inspiring
lighthearted
reflective
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
“’I’m fine,’ I immediately spoke up, but my trembling gave me away. Logan stepped into my space, lifting his hands with a question on his face. ‘Please hold me,’ I whispered... I hid my face against his button-up shirt. His large hands made soothing passes down my back, my arms, my legs, my neck, whatever part of me he could touch. As if he was both trying to reassure me and himself that I was okay. That I was here, and that he had me.”
🤟🏻
After teasing us for two books, we FINALLY get to know more about these characters... and it totally pays off! Usually I’m not a big fan of the “miscommunication trope,” but Andrea makes it uniquely her own because Logan is only able to speak through ASL and Eloise doesn’t know much of the language. While he is forced to listen to her misunderstanding his signs or his cryptic facial expressions, he is unable to fully explain himself. Up until this point, Logan is always the quiet one in the corner (usually because Court’s dragged him to some event... hello, Mr. Grumpy Pants) because of his lack of verbal communication abilities and his disinterest in engaging with others via ASL.
But, adding to the depth of the story, we get Logan's POV throughout the book, which adds to the tension and makes us kick our feet in giddy entertainment. Now we get to know who he really is and we get to fall in love with him, which is what we always want in a romance. I mean, who doesn’t love a man who is BIG on explicit consent, willing to learn about how to be a better, more supportive partner (and actually follows through with actions!), likes to poke fun at people, cares about people deeply, lives with the literal scars of his pain, is always observing, and will fiercely protect those he loves.
And, Eloise? Gosh, I relate to her because I am also trying to grapple with my own detrimental people pleasing. But her growth from the first book is wonderful to observe and she quickly grows on you. I LOVED the development of Eloise and Logan’s relationship from the previous books to this one, they really go through it, eventually finding ways to express themselves. Their love story is beautiful in its imperfections with both characters growing into better people for themselves and for their partner. The tenderness between them feels earned, in a way I can’t fully describe, but it adds depth to the story that you will love. This truly feels like the perfect way to end this series! Bravo, Andrea! I’m excited to see what else Andrea writes, because I am such a fan, even if it’s hard to say goodbye to these characters for now... until the next reread!
After teasing us for two books, we FINALLY get to know more about these characters... and it totally pays off! Usually I’m not a big fan of the “miscommunication trope,” but Andrea makes it uniquely her own because Logan is only able to speak through ASL and Eloise doesn’t know much of the language. While he is forced to listen to her misunderstanding his signs or his cryptic facial expressions, he is unable to fully explain himself. Up until this point, Logan is always the quiet one in the corner (usually because Court’s dragged him to some event... hello, Mr. Grumpy Pants) because of his lack of verbal communication abilities and his disinterest in engaging with others via ASL.
But, adding to the depth of the story, we get Logan's POV throughout the book, which adds to the tension and makes us kick our feet in giddy entertainment. Now we get to know who he really is and we get to fall in love with him, which is what we always want in a romance. I mean, who doesn’t love a man who is BIG on explicit consent, willing to learn about how to be a better, more supportive partner (and actually follows through with actions!), likes to poke fun at people, cares about people deeply, lives with the literal scars of his pain, is always observing, and will fiercely protect those he loves.
And, Eloise? Gosh, I relate to her because I am also trying to grapple with my own detrimental people pleasing. But her growth from the first book is wonderful to observe and she quickly grows on you. I LOVED the development of Eloise and Logan’s relationship from the previous books to this one, they really go through it, eventually finding ways to express themselves. Their love story is beautiful in its imperfections with both characters growing into better people for themselves and for their partner. The tenderness between them feels earned, in a way I can’t fully describe, but it adds depth to the story that you will love. This truly feels like the perfect way to end this series! Bravo, Andrea! I’m excited to see what else Andrea writes, because I am such a fan, even if it’s hard to say goodbye to these characters for now... until the next reread!
"I felt like I had a place in the world. Like I belonged and was supported... For the first time in my adult life, I felt like I fit. Like these people saw me for me. Even Logan... was able to make me feel both cherished and appreciated."
Content Warnings
Graphic: Sexual content
Moderate: Ableism, Child death, Sexual assault, Cursing, and Stalking
Minor: Alcoholism, Body shaming, Car accident, Death of parent, and Sexism
The female main character discovers the blurred lines of consent with a previous partner and comes to terms with her comfort in sexual situations. Her past partner doesn't pick up on the "no" cues (leading to mild stalking).