mcicenia 's review for:

Private Rites by Julia Armfield
4.25
dark mysterious reflective medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

i was pleasantly surprised with this! i wasn’t the hugest fan of our wives under the sea, but for some reason this novel captivated me. the character study really worked for me here, i think mostly because each character was incredibly complex and intricate. what stuck with me most was the illustration of these labyrinthine emotions:

“The problem with love, of course, is that it frequently asks too much of unlovable people.”
“To be misunderstood is one thing, but the curious hostility of a sibling's approach lies less in what they miss than in the strange backdated nature of the things they choose to know. A person can be thirty, thirty-five, and yet still largely described by her sisters in terms of things which happened to be true at the age of seventeen.”

i think this is the kind of novel that will stick with me for a while just for its characterization. the kind of novel that i’ll have to read again and again. my only qualm is that i don’t quite understand the ending. i liked the abruptness of it, the ambiguity - but even after sitting with it i can’t quite parse what it might mean. but overall i loved the concept of these little things scattered throughout the novel culminating in a rug pull twist. like you can feel it coming, you know these things have to mean something, but you don’t really know how. 

anyways, i loved this. i might need to reread our wives and see if i have different thoughts now 

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