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576 reviews
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
4.25
Graphic: Death and Blood
Moderate: Misogyny and Racism
Minor: Cancer and Abortion
4.0
Graphic: Ableism, Medical content, and Medical trauma
5.0
Graphic: Death, Genocide, and Racism
Moderate: Medical content and War
Minor: Vomit
4.5
Graphic: Ableism
3.0
However, the issue that I run into with a lot of the more ally-focus texts is that they are so nice and accomodating to the oppressing class in question that so much ends up being watered down and the hand-holding becomes distracting. The history component was really neat but she cushioned it with comments about history being dry and boring and that she wouldn't take too long, which was offputting. Politically, it was also very watered down for my taste but that is what it is with most ally-centered texts like this. There was lots about how to change language and representation, not as much focus on economic inequality and violence outside of mentioning laws and history. She does explain intersectionality and applies it to disability but it only goes so far when talking about the power structures and issues that impact different groups (a glaring example being the limited disussion arohnd prisons and police).
That being said, I did pick this up expecting similar issues to come up. But as I said at the beginning, this could be good for people just starting to learn. I learned some from the history component, and I think that the resources that she includes are quite helpful.
Graphic: Ableism
Minor: Sexual assault and Violence
4.5
A big part that I wasn't expecting but was interesting to hear about the author's experience with alcoholism and recovery (and makes just so much sense considering, not just the MLM culture but "wine mom" culture more broadly). This was a really entertaining and informative book! I listened to it on audiobook, narrated by the author.
Graphic: Alcoholism, Drug use, Misogyny, Racism, and Toxic friendship
Moderate: Cancer and Emotional abuse
Minor: Sexual assault
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? N/A
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.25
Graphic: Fatphobia
Moderate: Animal death and Body shaming
Minor: Sexual assault
3.0
I had some issues with the way it was framed. I went in with some knowledge of certain groups and a lot of queer history, but still found myself lost in sections. While I appreciate how it was set up by topic, I think that not including a little bit of background before some of them was a mistake, especially since we weren't seeing people tell their parts of the story to fully understand their perspective in these moments.
Over all, I did get a lot out of this book, but I think it could have been stronger.
Graphic: Homophobia and Transphobia
Moderate: Fatphobia, Misogyny, and Rape
5.0
I have more thought and feelings about it, but over all, this was an incredible book.
Graphic: Death
Moderate: Violence and Medical content