This was a quick, but engrossing read that kept me guessing until the end. The characters are mostly sympathetic, but not without flaws, and the plot is fast-paced.
I didn't so much give up on this book, as I came to the realization that it's just not the kind of book I can read cover to cover. I will continue to dip in and out of it, whenever the mood strikes, as I very much enjoy it. I just enjoy it more in small doses.
I felt like crying, practically from the first page, and loved every second of it. I think that even those who are not "dog people" will be able to relate in some way to the character of Ted, and his struggles with career and relationships. Even though it's pretty clear from the outset that the outcome will not be positive for Lily, the journey that she, and especially Ted, take to get to that inevitable conclusion is worth taking with them. Already likable and relatable, Ted grows in ways that leave you wanting to cheer for him, even as you grieve for Lily.
As he learns to cope with life through dealing with the "octopus", Ted grapples with the concepts of mortality, gratitude, self-image and family in ways that touch on Zen and classical Stoic philosophy. But don't think that this is a dense, overly-philosophical novel. The ideas are presented in an easy to digest fashion that is peripheral to an enjoyment of the book
As relevant and important now as it was when first published. This book makes a compelling, well-reasoned and rational argument for critical thinking and skeptical inquiry, and why they are so critically important. A must read for anyone who likes to exercise their rights and wishes to continue to do that.