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Everything We Never Had by Randy Ribay

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5.0

"It's that you never bothered teaching me anything about our people's history, about where we came from, because you didn't think it was important. Well, I do. And now I have to teach myself everything."

Oooph. Randy Ribay weaves Filipino history within the pages of this beautiful and painful book that highlights the Filipino diaspora and how our experiences/traumas can affect us for generations.

Everything We Never Had took me double, if not triple, the time to finish because I had to stop frequently to process my emotions and talk it out with my FilAm best friends. I saw myself, my mother, my children within these pages and... wow. I honestly am having trouble describing how I feel about this book, but it has impacted me beyond words and I look forward to rereading it.