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4.25
Spencer, I think, does a good job at talking about the problems with child actors without risking Disney coming after her legally. Unfortunately, that means she couldn't go as deeply into that topic as this books deserves.
(Also, Disney did my man Zac Efron dirty. I relistened to the HSM soundtracks after reading this, and he has a better voice than the other guy.)
Moderate: Addiction, Child abuse, Eating disorder, Toxic friendship
Minor: Drug use, Mental illness, Misogyny, Rape, Self harm, Sexual violence, Alcohol, Sexual harassment
5.0
By her own account, she's done just about everything, too. I can't explain how emotional it makes me to hear an elder trans woman talk about her life and work. She says that she's honored to be seen as a mother and grandmother in the community; I'm just as honored to call her by those titles.
And this conversational text wouldn't be complete without Toshio Meronek's guiding questions and their intimate relationship to Miss Major. It really lets her shine in a way that a more traditional biographical piece wouldn't allow.
Graphic: Biphobia, Confinement, Hate crime, Homophobia, Racism, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Transphobia, Violence, Police brutality, Lesbophobia, Injury/Injury detail, Classism
Moderate: Death, Terminal illness, Xenophobia, Murder, Colonisation
Minor: Deadnaming, Racial slurs, Suicide, Mass/school shootings, Death of parent
5.0
Praisesong for the Kitchen Ghosts is a different kind of cookbook. I'm excited to try some of the recipes (corn pudding, I love you), but there's so much more here than that. There's history, genealogy, poetry, and storytelling. It's a real love letter to Wilkinson's ancestors and culture. The manner in which she imagines her foremothers' lives is so vibrant and real that her reminders that she's imagining this are necessary.
This kind of meditation on cooking, family, time, and connection is extremely underrated - Wilkinson's work here is truly elevating the food writing bar.
I think about the stereotype of a long-winded food blogger writing a novel before a recipe, the scrolling through ads, the thinking get to the fucking point. What Wilkinson does differently is she makes it abundantly clear that you can't have the dishes without the stories (and vice versa), and she isn't trying to pad out a nothing-burger for profit. Like her cooking, this book is a labor of love.
Graphic: Death, Racism, Slavery, Grief
Moderate: Racial slurs, Death of parent, Pandemic/Epidemic
Minor: Animal death, Child death, Mental illness
5.0
As a queer Appalachian with a complicated relationship to the region and its culture, it was really refreshing and heartening to see myself reflected in a place that everyone see so antithetical to my existence. I also love when academics get to write about niche things that they're passionate about, which is what most of these essays boil down to.
I want my own copy of this, for reference and for sharing with others - firstly my cousin.
Favorite essay list: Queer in the Holler: Appalachian Image-Making by Julie Rae Powers, For Black Appalachians, Southerners, and Rural Folks by M.AMA, All Them that Don't Call Me They by sair goetz, Home Grown: Critical Queer Activism in Appalachia and the South by Heather Brydie Harris, Tree Sit Blockades and Queer Liberation by Chessie Oaks, Myths and Electricity: The Queer Appalachia Project and Unconventional Queer Archives by Maxwell Cloe, The "Wyrd" and Wonderful Queerness of Appalachian Oral History in Theory and Practice by Matthew R. Sparks, and The Man, The Moth, The Legend: The Role and Function of Folklore in Queer-Appalachian Social Media Communities by Brent Watts.
Graphic: Homophobia, Racism, Transphobia, Classism
Moderate: Misogyny, Xenophobia, Colonisation
Minor: Addiction, Alcoholism, Drug abuse, Drug use, Incest, Antisemitism, Religious bigotry, Cultural appropriation, Alcohol
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
5.0
Graphic: Biphobia, Homophobia, Panic attacks/disorders, Rape, Self harm, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Violence, Trafficking, Grief
Moderate: Alcoholism, Suicide, Torture, Alcohol
Minor: Addiction, Medical content, Suicide attempt
Did not finish book. Stopped at 35%.
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
4.25
I liked a lot of things about Lucy; she is probably the most likeable (to my tastes, anyway) Brontë heroine thus far. Sure, she's got a morality stick up her ass, but I like her directness, her lack of sentimentality, and that she makes the most queer-esque comments. (Yes, I am a bisexual Lucy Snowe truther - what else was that description of Madame Beck when she was trying to figure out where Doctor John's interests were?)
I'm obsessed, too, with how radical the Protestant-Catholic conflict and its resolution were. I was so sure one of them was going to end up converting, so I was thrilled to see them accept each other and still love each other with that religious difference.
Also, while the resolution to the ghost nun plot was funny, I wish it'd been left without explanation.
Graphic: Religious bigotry
Moderate: Ableism, Death, Racism
Minor: Adult/minor relationship, Incest, Colonisation
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
5.0
Enter my friend who cannot stop talking about what a blorbo Jean is.
I caved. I read The Sunshine Court. And I have to agree that I would defend Jean with my life now. Sakavic is so good at writing the kind of cultish trauma that Jean has, how he would end up complicit to a degree I don't even think he has the capacity to understand, and to show that he is also a victim, probably the most victimized by Riko. That's a level of character work that is difficult to reach.
I also love the Trojans - I have a habit of wondering what the normal people are doing in over-the-top mafia-cult tales where the whole lineup is fucked up beyond average comprehension. So to see that the Trojans have more relatable problems and are like "What the fuck?" when Jean's issues jump out was super satisfying.
What can I say about the plot? It's as convoluted as ever. I don't really care that much about it as anything other than a vehicle for the character growth and the interpersonal explorations, though, so it doesn't impact my rating.
Graphic: Bullying, Child abuse, Cursing, Death, Emotional abuse, Physical abuse, Self harm, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Violence, Blood, Trafficking, Toxic friendship, Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Rape, Suicide, Torture, Murder
Minor: Child death
- Plot- or character-driven? N/A
- Strong character development? N/A
- Loveable characters? N/A
- Diverse cast of characters? N/A
- Flaws of characters a main focus? N/A
5.0
Which, now that I'm finished with The Dangers of Smoking in Bed, strikes me as an ironic directive. I don't really feel like I *read* Enriquez's writing; it seems more like she read her culture's collective anxieties and remixed them, cranking the volume in scathing tones. That is to say, she's reading *us* - to filth.
How do we treat children? What are they to us? What about women? What about that awful amalgamation of the two, the teenage girl? What about those on our fringes? What about those who are dead? What about those who maybe or may not be dead? What about those who are gone, regardless of their being alive or dead? What does it even mean, to be gone, to teeter on the edge of society until you fall off?
These are fraught questions (to say the least), and Enriquez isn't here to answer them. She will, though, make you confront every disquieting, uncomfortable inch of them.
The thing that really stands out to me about Enriquez's writing is that she grabs what feels like a random detail and skips across its tangential edges into her story. While I think that looking deeper, these inductions have more connective tissue to their stories than meets the eye, I can't help but be impressed with their surface-level function; they're grounding. They flesh out a believeable shape of a world in a few sentences. It's a masterclass in scene setting.
My favorite stories: "The Well," "The Lookout," "Meat," "Kids Who Come Back," and "Back When We Talked to the Dead."
Graphic: Child abuse, Child death, Death, Mental illness, Misogyny, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Toxic relationship, Violence, Blood, Cannibalism, Toxic friendship
Moderate: Drug abuse, Drug use, Pedophilia, Murder, Alcohol
Minor: Alcoholism, Miscarriage, Trafficking, Pregnancy
5.0
On top of her clear and meaningful purpose, Lynch also has a strong, engaging, and clever voice, one that is real to the point of brutality. I've never had an eating disorder, but I do have OCD and chronic depression, and the way Lynch describes negative thought patterns, control-based mental illnesses and coping mechanisms, and just how vicious and cruel it is to sit with yourself at the height of self-hatred is extraordinarily accurate. Scarily so, at times.
I can't say I agree with all of Lynch's takes - the way she feels about leather, and astrology, and JK Rowling, are all things that make me exasperated, a bit. But I do agree with the overall message of her book, about the messy complications of "recovery", of our cultural misunderstanding of it, of how our medical institutions dehumanize patients "for their own good", and how fear and control are tools that we use to lock ourselves away from life.
Also, if you like dark humor, she's fucking hilarious.
Graphic: Ableism, Body shaming, Cursing, Eating disorder, Fatphobia, Mental illness, Forced institutionalization, Medical content, Medical trauma
Moderate: Panic attacks/disorders
Minor: Adult/minor relationship, Self harm, Suicidal thoughts, Excrement, Vomit, Pandemic/Epidemic