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403 reviews
Did not finish book. Stopped at 8%.
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
I have a lot of thoughts but mostly I'm just so glad this book exists. I needed it 10+ years ago, but it's healed a part of me all the same.
This is a hilarious & heartwarming story about the college experience. No lovers, just enemies and friends (at the same time).
This is also the story of two people experiencing aroace joy while navigating a world that doesn't always make sense to them.
We see through Jo and Sophie that platonic love is just as strong and just as important as romantic love. We see a vision of a future that makes room for a-spec people, one that I hope comes to be understood and accepted more broadly by society soon.
I highly recommend this book to anyone who is ace, aro, aroace, anywhere on those spectrums, as well as literally everyone else who exists!
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Moderate: Acephobia/Arophobia
5.0
She begins by defining the Anishinaabe word Nii'kinaaganaa: "I am my relatives, all of them. I am related to everything. All my relations."
This, alongside the concept of creation stories, becomes a guidestone throughout the book as she navigates the forgotten history of Indigenous peoples and the enduring impact of settler colonialism.
"We need to unforget our histories and the relationships they contain. We need to become kin."
It's not an exaggeration to say that this book changed me as a person, just as Krawec highlights in the final chapter. I think this process began with Oct. 7 ๐ต๐ธ when I first opened my eyes and continues today as I seek guidance and knowledge from those who have been doing the work for generations.
"Nii'kinaaganaa.
We are related."
Graphic: Colonisation
Moderate: Violence, Racism, and Genocide
4.0
5.0
Graphic: Injury/Injury detail, Blood, Emotional abuse, Medical content, Panic attacks/disorders, Physical abuse, Self harm, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Violence, and Vomit
Moderate: Child death, Grief, Child abuse, Rape, and Suicide
Minor: Murder
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
2.5
I disliked both main characters and the book overall was trying too hard to fit certain tropes.
Graphic: Injury/Injury detail, Death, Death of parent, Animal death, Blood, Body horror, Fire/Fire injury, and Misogyny
4.5
Graphic: Murder, Pandemic/Epidemic, Self harm, Blood, Violence, Injury/Injury detail, Death, Medical trauma, Body horror, and Medical content
Moderate: Colonisation, Fire/Fire injury, Genocide, and Xenophobia
Minor: Dysphoria, Child death, and Torture