This book carries a profound sense of melancholy, with a pervasive sadness that seeps into every page. The author did an exceptional job portraying the affair between an older author and a 23 year old assistant at the publishing house, as well as the toxic ripple effects it had on every aspect of her life. Her vulnerabilities, shaped by her past, made her particularly susceptible to this dynamic, and I found myself deeply empathizing with her. At the same time, I felt frustrated watching her self-destructive tendencies.
The story serves as a poignant reminder of how consent becomes dubious in the presence of power dynamics and highlights the restorative power of community and friendships. For me, the strongest moments in the book were those that centered on her friendships and the rare occasions where she could simply exist as a young woman in her 20s.
This book was frustrating, heartbreaking, maddening, and ultimately powerful.
Graphic: Death, Infidelity, Mental illness, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Toxic relationship, Grief, Abortion, Suicide attempt, Death of parent, and Gaslighting
This book took me by surprise. If you’re a fan of *Yellowface* by RF Kuang, you’ll likely enjoy this one too. The main character is morally grey, making some deeply questionable decisions, and there are strong themes around race and social media. These aspects were particularly engaging, and I loved how they were explored. However, a major subplot involving religious cults and sacrifices felt jarring and disconnected from the rest of the narrative. It seemed out of place alongside the themes of influencer culture, racism, and class, which threw me off a bit. Overall, I was hooked for the first half of the book, but by the second half, I found myself feeling increasingly confused and detached.
Thank you to Knopf, Pantheon, and Vintage and NetGalley for an advanced copy of this book! Ordinary Love by Marie Rutkoski is beautifully written. The protagonist, Emily, is a dynamic and fully realized character, and I found myself deeply invested in her journey. Her experience with emotional abuse and gaslighting in her marriage created a palpable tension throughout the book.
My only complaint is the pacing. There were too many heavy, traumatic events (see: trigger warnings), and it felt like I was being hit with one thing after another without enough space to fully explore each issue.
I did appreciate the flashbacks, Emily’s relationship with Gen, and her friendships, though I wished we saw more of them towards the end. Overall, it was an enjoyable read and first book of 2025 for me!